Saturday, February 8, 2025

Spare the Rod, Spoil the Child

Series on “I am Joe’s Favorite Verses”
Revelation 3:20
 (Click on the link below to read the verses.)
Revelation 3:14-22 

[Many years ago, there used to be articles in the Reader’s Digest titled “I am Joe’s ___” with the blank being filled with a body part or organ. Over the years, I’ve written down verses that are meaningful to me on 3x5 cards. In this series we’ll be looking at some of my favorite verses. In other words, “I am Joe’s Favorite Verses”.]

  

“Spare the rod, spoil the child”. This is a familiar saying that originated with Proverbs 13:24. The message of this verse is that if you love your child, you will discipline them. Whether you use a rod or not, isn’t the point. 

 

Recently, my wife and I were enjoying a quiet brunch after church. Suddenly, from across the small restaurant, a child screamed at the top of his lungs. It was piercing! Then it was followed by another scream just as loud.

 

Conversations stopped, as heads turned throughout the restaurant to see what had prompted such an outburst. And, to see what the parents would do about it. However, they seemed unfazed, and didn’t say or do anything. Spare the rod, spoil the child… and our brunch.


The city of Laodicea was one of the wealthiest cities in Asia Minor. This was due in part because several trade routes intersected with it. Also, it was a commercial center for banking, clothing and carpet manufacturing, and they had a hospital that produced a special ointment to treat eye defects.

 

As a result, the citizens were extremely prosperous with all the modern conveniences of the day… except for one. They had no natural water supply! There were hot springs nearby, but the water wasn’t suitable. Also, you could see snow covered mountains, but it wasn’t accessible.

 

To address this problem, water was piped from two rivers that were about 5 miles south of the city through a sophisticated aqueduct system. But because of how long it took to transport the water, it was lukewarm at best when they drank it. Nasty!

 

Normally, the affluent citizens of Laodicea could have whatever they wanted. All they had to do was buy it. But there was no solution for the water. No doubt, this was a topic of daily complaints for the well-healed residents of Laodicea.

 

Unfortunately, this same attitude of entitlement and privilege was prevalent in the church and led to pride and complacency. When John received his vision of what to write on a scroll to the seven churches of Asia Minor, Laodicea was included. Here is what Jesus instructed him to write to the Laodicean believers.

 

15 I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either one or the other! 16 So, because you are lukewarm—neither hot nor cold —I am about to spit you out of my mouth.                 NIV

 

The IVP Bible Background Commentary, paraphrases it like this:

Jesus said: “Were you hot [i.e. for bathing] or cold [i.e. for drinking], you would be useful; but as it is, I feel toward you the way you feel toward your water supply – you make me sick!”

 


But John’s message didn’t end with judgement and condemnation. Jesus had provided a means for restoration; a means of forgiveness.

 

19 I correct and discipline everyone I love. So be diligent and turn from your indifference. 20 “Look! I stand at the door and knock. If you hear my voice and open the door, I will come in, and we will share a meal together as friends.        NLT

 

The church at Laodicea was being disciplined. Not for yelling in a restaurant, but for being lukewarm in their faith. If you’re not careful, life can do that. There are times when we’ve all been lukewarm in our faith.

 


Thankfully though, Jesus’ promise still stands. He is continually knocking at the door of our heart, waiting for us to open it and fellowship with him. Therefore, “be diligent and turn from your indifference”.

 

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