Saturday, October 23, 2021

A Funeral for Snead

A Series on the Beatitudes
 (Click on the link below to read the verses.)
Matthew 5:4; 2 Corinthians 1:3-11

[In this series, we will be looking at the Beatitudes from the perspective that Jesus came to establish his kingdom. And in order to do that, he needed to set new expectations; to let his followers know that his was not a political kingdom, but a spiritual one; to teach them what it means to bring in his kingdom; what it means to turn the world upside down.] 


Blessed are those who mourn,
    for they will be comforted.
         NIV


During my sophomore year of college, I had a roommate who owned a canary named Snead. As canaries do, Snead sang morning, noon and night. Except, one day when we returned from class, he wasn’t. In fact, Snead wasn’t breathing.

 

Being the sensitive, compassionate, mature college students that we were, we decided to have a funeral service. It started in our dorm room, followed by a processional down the hall, including a “priest” with “holy water” and official mourners. We ended in the courtyard of the girls’ dorm for the actual burial.

 


Snead had been carefully laid in an Old Spice wooden gift box with Kleenex gently lining the inside. He was then laid on top of a royal blue bath towel spread across a ten foot long wooden shelf from our closet. It was a fitting memorial for our friend Snead. 

Of course, there are times when mourning is no laughing matter.

 

As he did with the first beatitude, Eugene Peterson paraphrased the second one in a way that you can easily understand and relate to.

 

“You’re blessed when you feel you’ve lost what is most dear to you. Only then can you be embraced by the One most dear to you. MSG

 

We mourned the passing of Snead that night… kind of. But when someone has truly lost “what is most dear to you”, the mourning goes deep. It hurts so much that only tears can adequately express the depth of your pain. And when you hurt like that, you need to “be embraced by the One most dear to you”.

 

Paul wrote to the Corinthians about the pain and grief and mourning that he experienced, as well as the comfort that he received and the lessons learned

 

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.           NIV

 

8b We were under great pressure, far beyond our ability to endure, so that we despaired of life itself. Indeed, we felt we had received the sentence of death. But this happened that we might not rely on ourselves but on God, who raises the dead.                NIV

 

I have three questions for you and for me. What have you lost that was most dear to you; that hurt deep; that brought you to your knees? What did you learn from your losses? How did it help you to help others?

 

Copyright 2021 Joseph B Williams

 

 

 

 

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