Showing posts with label judging others. Show all posts
Showing posts with label judging others. Show all posts

Saturday, April 22, 2023

Blind Spot

A Series on the parables of Jesus – Part 2
The speck and the log
 (Click on the link below to read the verses.)
Matthew 7:1-5 

[During the first century, it was common for a rabbi to use parables when teaching their disciples. The parables of Jesus were stories that he told to illustrate spiritual truth using some element from everyday life. Jesus used seeds, fish, trees, bread - things people could easily relate to – for a “teachable moment”.]

  


The first car that I ever owned was a brown 1971 Ford Pinto. It was a no-frills car with a stick shift, crank windows, push button AM radio and no air conditioning. But it was affordable, and it was mine!

 

Little did I realize at the time, that it would later be considered by some, “the most dangerous car ever created”. Apparently, there was a series of design defects that could cause the car to burst into flames in low-speed collisions.

 

Thankfully car manufacturers are making vehicles much safer today. One safety feature that really helps is the side mirror that lights up when another car enters your blind spot. It’s very useful because… everybody has a blind spot.

 

The parable of “the speck and the log” is about the blind spots that we all have. But before Jesus tells the parable, he gives a commandment with a consequence.

 

“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.       NIV

 

He then clarifies what he’s saying by using hyperbole. In doing this, Jesus draws an absurd picture to drive home his point.

 

“And why worry about a speck in your friend’s eye when you have a log in your own? How can you think of saying to your friend, ‘Let me help you get rid of that speck in your eye,’ when you can’t see past the log in your own eye?         NLT

 


His solution to this is to first recognize our own blind spots before trying to help a friend with their blind spots. Easier said than done. However, previous to this parable, Jesus had taught his disciples how to pray which included forgiveness instead of judgement.

 

12 and forgive us our sins,
    as we have forgiven those who sin against us.
         NLT Matthew 6

 


As mentioned above, cars today are much safer. Unfortunately, manufacturers haven’t figured out how to remove the blind spot of human nature. I guess there’s only so much they can do. But in Christ, all things are possible.

 

32 Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.            NIV Ephesians 4:32

 

Copyright 2023 Joseph B Williams

 

 

 

 

Saturday, May 12, 2018

Laying Down the Law

Romans 14:13-19
(Use the link below to read the verses.)

  

Parents set boundaries for their children all the time in all different areas of life. In response to the question of “What are some TV boundaries that you set for your children?” my daughter had three rules:

 

       No TV after dinner.
 
       Only 1-2 hours of TV at any one time.
 
       No TV while eating dinner.
 
Then, just in case, she installed an app on her daughter’s phone that locks her out from 8 pm to 7 am.


Parents set boundaries for their children. Sometimes they make rules. But when they get really firm, they lay down the Law.

 

Paul is writing to the Roman believers about a hot button issue of the time. Jewish Christians believed the Law prohibited them from eating meat that had been offered to idols. Whereas, Gentiles had no problem eating the same meat. This became such an issue that the Jerusalem council had to deal with it.

 

Paul wrote to the Roman church, “stop condemning or judging each other”.

 


17 For the Kingdom of God is not a matter of what we eat or drink, but of living a life of goodness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit. 18 If you serve Christ with this attitude, you will please God, and others will approve of you, too. 19 So then, let us aim for harmony in the church and try to build each other up. 20 Don’t tear apart the work of God over what you eat.          NLT

 

In our culture today, we don’t really relate to conflict about eating meat offered to idols. But we can relate to judging one another. We judge others based on how they look; where they live; how they affect our life; how they act in church; what they smell like; if their beliefs match ours. The list is endless.

 

We all have our own set of rules based on our values and priorities. Then we apply those rules to others. What rules do you apply to your family; to your co-workers; to people at church; to the stranger in the car who cuts you off? Do you build others up or tear them down?

 

Once you’ve answered those questions, remind yourself of what is truly important; that only God’s word and people are eternal. Then live a life that will “aim for harmony in the church and build each other up”.

 

 

 

 

Saturday, September 17, 2016

Outsider


Acts 10:34-45

 


Have you ever felt like an outsider; different than those around you? As I considered this devotional I remembered a man who came to our church for awhile. I haven’t seen him lately. He usually sat in the same pew as my wife and I. During the sermon he would knit. I have to confess that I judged him. Maybe that’s why he hasn’t been around.

 

It’s easy to judge others; to put them next to an artificial standard that we have created in order to make ourselves look and feel good. You know the one I’m talking about. You
have to dress a certain way; act and talk a certain way; look a certain way. Otherwise, you just don’t fit in.

 

The backstory to today’s passage is that Peter, a Jew, and Cornelius, a Gentile, have been brought together by supernatural means orchestrated by God.

 

Normally, the culture they live in would not permit this meeting to occur. It was a social and religious culture that put the Gentiles on the outside and the Jews on the inside. In case of point, look at the reaction of the good Jewish people when the Gentiles received the Holy Spirit.

 

While Peter was still speaking these words, the Holy Spirit came on all who heard the message. The circumcised believers who had come with Peter were astonished that the gift of the Holy Spirit had been poured out even on Gentiles.          Acts 10:44-45 NIV

 

The disdain that the Jews had for the Gentiles was impeding the spread of the Gospel. God’s word, His love, His grace and forgiveness and even His Holy Spirit - were being held captive. Peter had a change of heart that not only changed him, but changed the world around him.

 

Then Peter began to speak: “I now realize how true it is that God does not show favoritism but accepts from every nation the one who fears him and does what is right.      Acts 10:34-35NIV

 

Who do you judge and keep in a box? Someone who looks different or acts different from you? Maybe they knit during the sermon. Let the Holy Spirit open your heart so that all might have access to the Gospel of Jesus.

 

 

 

 

 

 

(If God has spoken to you, or touched your heart through this devotional, please feel free to share it with others.)